Experiencing Domestic Violence
Men experience domestic abuse far less often than women do, but it does still happen both in heterosexual and homosexual relationships. You may feel that through seeking help you will be seen as less “manly” or “weak”.
You may feel that some people will take you less seriously because they feel you should be able to stop it.
This is symptomatic of a sexist society that stereotypes women as weak and men as strong. It is also representative of a narrow view of domestic violence that disregards sexual, emotional and financial abuse as well as isolation and threats.
Everyone has the right to be respected and to feel safe in their own homes. If you feel you are being abused, you should be able to get help. Many acts within Domestic violence are against the law and you can seek support from the police. You can also contact Cardiff Women’s Aid, the Men’s Advice Line, or ManKind.
DynWales can help support you and provide face to face support services by a male advocate. Please see
http://www.dynwales.org/ for more information including a phone line for advice.
Men’s advice line can provide telephone advice and put you in touch with local support agencies. Please see
http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/mens_advice.php